A new book seeks to dispel the myth that charisma is something people are born with rather than a trait that can be learned, The Age reports.
The secret to success, according to The Charisma Myth author Olivia Fox Cabane, is to follow a few guidelines that are capable of building the ability to influence, persuade and inspire.
To assist in this process The Age has distilled some of the key themes from Fox Cabane's book. In summary, a few of these charisma guidelines are:
- It's not about being the most attractive person – apparently it helps but charisma isn't all about looks, e.g. Winston Churchill
- Focus on others – during conversations charismatic people make others feel like they are the most fascinating people in the room
- Look genuine – think of something pleasant so you appear sincere during a conversation; this helps you to avoid a fake smile
- Shake it up – the right handshake (not too hard, not too soft, no twisting) can boost your charisma points
- Listen up – rather than doing all the talking or dominating the conversation, listen attentively to what others are saying
- Dress right – uncomfortable clothes may distract you and make others think you are disengaged
What do you think? Is it really that simple or do you believe some people are born with the gift of charisma?